Here's the thing. I've been going to a book club for maybe close to a year now. It's a bit off and on but is back on again. It's fun. Really fun. We discuss the book but we also eat and have a drink if we want. And laugh. There is a lot of laughing.
There used to be people of all ages but now basically it is a group of 30 and 40 somethings and me. And I'm a good 10 to 15, and in more than one case maybe even 20+, years older than them.
I basically feel very welcomed. I'm one of the last ones to join so I'm not an original member and there are times when I feel like I could be cramping their style so to speak. That they might be more relaxed if I wasn't there. Kinda like having a mother at a slumber party.
There is another book club starting in town and it will probably be mostly people more my age. Do I switch to the new book club and be age appropriate or stay where I am? What would you do?